i have a friend who just keeps seeing the wrong guys.we've been friends for years and i try to tell her that they are not good for her.She wont listen to me and i cant stop her.
i love her to peices but i cant stop her from seeing who she likes,even when it ends up with me picking up the peices,i mean, i cant say 'i told you so' to her when she is sobbing her heart out on my couch shoveling ice-cream in her mouth. can i? would it be a bad decision to tell her straight that this is bad for her?
im not always going to be there to help her start up again,i cant help but want her to be happy...how do i do it though?would it be harsh to tell her what she is doing? or do i just let my best friend continue on this self-destruct rampage untill she learns her lesson?
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